In the world of celebrity romances, few stories have captured hearts quite like that of music producer Benny Blanco and singer-actress Selena Gomez. From their initial professional collaboration to a whirlwind engagement, a star-studded wedding, and hints at what’s next, their journey has been one of love, creativity, and public adoration. As of September 29, 2025, the couple is officially married, marking a new chapter in their lives. Here’s a detailed look at how it all unfolded, including every milestone and glimpses into their future.
How It All Started: From Music to Magic
Benny Blanco, whose real name is Benjamin Levin, and Selena Gomez first crossed paths in the music industry years before romance entered the picture. Blanco, a prolific producer known for hits with artists like Justin Bieber and Rihanna, collaborated with Gomez on her 2015 album Revival. They worked together on tracks such as “Kill Em with Kindness” and “Same Old Love,” establishing a professional rapport.
Their paths intertwined again in 2019 when Blanco produced Gomez’s single “I Can’t Get Enough,” featuring Tainy and J Balvin. At the time, both were focused on their careers—Gomez navigating her acting roles in projects like Only Murders in the Building, and Blanco churning out chart-toppers. Little did fans know, these sessions planted the seeds for something more personal.
Dating Rumors Ignite: The Quiet Beginnings
Speculation about a romantic connection began swirling in mid-2023. In June of that year, Gomez posted a cryptic Instagram Story wearing a “B” ring, fueling whispers that she was seeing Blanco. By December 2023, Gomez confirmed the rumors herself on social media, revealing they had been dating for six months. She described Blanco as “the best thing that’s ever happened to me” in comments on fan posts, shutting down earlier links to other celebrities.
The couple kept things low-key at first, with Gomez sharing subtle glimpses into their life together. In one early post, she called him her “absolute everything in my heart,” showcasing their affectionate dynamic. Blanco echoed the sentiment in interviews, praising Gomez’s talent and kindness.
Going Public: Red Carpets, Collaborations, and Milestones
By 2024, Blanco and Gomez were no longer hiding their love. They made their red carpet debut at the Emmys in January 2024, where Gomez was nominated for her role in Only Murders in the Building. The pair looked smitten, with Blanco supporting her every step.
Throughout the year, they celebrated holidays and birthdays together. For Gomez’s 32nd birthday in July 2024, Blanco threw a lavish party, complete with custom decorations and heartfelt tributes on social media. Their bond deepened with joint projects, including a collaboration on Gomez’s music and appearances on each other’s podcasts.
In February 2025, the duo released a joint album titled I Said I Love You, blending their styles in pop and R&B tracks that fans hailed as a “love letter” to their relationship. This professional synergy only strengthened their personal connection, with Blanco often crediting Gomez for inspiring his creativity.
The Engagement: A Sparkling Proposal
The relationship reached a major milestone on December 11, 2024, when Gomez announced their engagement on Instagram. She shared photos of a stunning diamond ring, captioning it “Forever starts now.” Blanco, 37, proposed in a intimate setting, and the news quickly went viral, with celebrities like Taylor Swift (a close friend of Gomez) offering congratulations.
Gomez, 33, later revealed in interviews that the proposal was “perfect” and unexpected, though their bond had felt inevitable. The engagement ring, designed by Blanco with input from jewelers, featured a marquise-cut diamond estimated at over $1 million.
Wedding Bells: The Intimate Ceremony
After nearly a year of planning, Blanco and Gomez tied the knot on September 27, 2025, in a romantic ceremony in California. The wedding was held at a private estate in Santa Barbara, blending elegance with a relaxed vibe—true to the couple’s style.
Details leaked in the days leading up to the event, revealing a star-studded guest list including Taylor Swift, Steve Martin, and Martin Short (Gomez’s co-stars). However, one major A-lister reportedly dropped out last-minute due to scheduling conflicts. The ceremony featured personalized vows, with Gomez walking down the aisle in a custom gown by a top designer. Blanco described the day as “chill but lit” in pre-wedding interviews.
A rehearsal dinner took place the night before, emphasizing the couple’s desire for a “relaxed and meaningful” celebration. Photos shared by the newlyweds on social media showed them beaming, with Gomez captioning hers “My wife in real life.”
Challenges Along the Way: Overcoming Public Scrutiny
No celebrity romance is without hurdles. Gomez has been open about facing body-shaming comments, especially as wedding preparations ramped up. In a candid interview, she recalled being called “fat” online but emphasized self-love and Blanco’s unwavering support. Blanco, too, has defended their relationship against critics, calling Gomez his “best friend” in public statements.
Future Plans: Family, Music, and Beyond
Looking ahead, Blanco and Gomez have shared exciting visions for their life together. In July 2025, Blanco mentioned they were just starting to dive into wedding details but were eager for what comes next. Post-marriage, sources indicate the couple is considering starting a family, with Gomez expressing a desire for children in past interviews. “Family is everything to me,” she said during a podcast appearance.
Professionally, more collaborations are on the horizon. Following their 2025 album, rumors swirl of a joint tour or new singles in 2026. Gomez continues her acting career, with Only Murders in the Building renewed for another season, while Blanco produces for top artists. They also plan to expand their philanthropy, supporting mental health causes through Gomez’s Rare Impact Fund.
A Love Story for the Ages
From studio partners to husband and wife, Benny Blanco and Selena Gomez’s journey is a testament to finding love in unexpected places. Their marriage on September 27, 2025, caps off a timeline filled with joy, creativity, and resilience. As they step into the future, fans eagerly await the next chapter—whether it’s family expansions, hit songs, or simply more heartwarming moments shared online. For now, the couple seems content in their happily ever after.
